my thought, my life

Always Focus on solutions & not on problems.

2009-07-17T08:43:00.002+08:00

Difference between Focusing on Problems and Focusing on Solutions

Case 1
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When NASA began the launch of astronauts into space, they found out that the pens wouldn't work at zero gravity (ink won't flow down to the writing surface). To solve this problem, it took them one decade and US$12 million. They developed a pen that worked at zero gravity, upside down, underwater, in practically any surface including crystal and in a temperature range from below freezing to over 300 degrees C.

And what did the Russians do...?? They used a pencil.

Case 2
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One of the most memorable case studies on Japanese management was the case of the empty soapbox, which happened in one of Japan's biggest cosmetics companies. The company received a complaint that a consumer had bought a soapbox that was empty. Immediately the authorities isolated the problem to the assembly line, which transported all the packaged boxes of soap to the delivery department. For some reason, one soapbox went through the assembly line empty.

Management asked its engineers to solve the problem. Post-haste, the engineers worked hard to devise an X-ray machine with high-resolution monitors manned by two people to watch all the soapboxes that passed through the line to make sure they were not empty. No doubt, they worked hard and they worked fast but they spent a whoopee amount to do so.

But when a rank-and-file employee in a small company was posed with the same problem, he did not get into complications of X-rays, etc., but instead came out with another solution. He bought a strong industrial electric fan and pointed it at the assembly line. He switched the fan on, and as each soapbox passed the fan, it simply blew the empty boxes out of the line.

Moral: Always look for simple solutions.

Devise the simplest possible solution that solves the problems

Always Focus on solutions & not on problems.

Life will go on, yes, life will go on

2009-05-25T23:49:00.005+08:00

life is never easy, but it is never too hard as well.
whatever you are having or facing now is the best thing
and the most appropriate thing you have to do in this moment of time.

May be
you complain about what you have, what you are doing now...
you dislike, unhappy with what you are facing now..
be it your work, your relationship, you family, your friends, your colleagues, your kids...and the list continue...

however,
if we can change the way we think,
if we can see things from another perspective,
if we can try to think positively in many of the our thoughts, if not all,
if we can be more gratitude of what we have now....
YES, WE CAN.

then,
when you change your thoughts, there your perception changed as well,
when your perception changed, there your attitude changed as well,
when your attitude changed, there your behavior changed as well,
when your behavior change, there your habit changed as well,
when your habit changed, there your personality changed as well,
when your personality changed, there your destiny hanged as well.

hence,
never look down or underestimate every small little changes you have made,
for them the beautiful complex things are determined,
never underestimate the changes of one person,
for them the attitude of larger community is determined.

because,
some one said that,
When you change the way you see thing,
the thing that you see changed

Lover's Concerto

2009-02-14T18:48:00.002+08:00

一首很轻快，很舒服，很幸福，很自在，无拘无束，海阔天空的 lover converto。
愿有情人终成眷属！

OO software developer wanted! A MNC from The Netherlands, -> Quintiq!

2009-01-04T13:10:00.005+08:00

Benefits

attractive remuneration package! (above average)
contractual bonus (1 month)
profit sharing
good increment!
unlimited annual leaves brought forward!
leave encashment! (turn your leave to cash!)
overtime compensation! (basically means OT - per 15 mins block!)
insurance for healthcare and term life.
annual dental and optical claims.
very good working environment! (unlimited can drinks, chocolates, biscuts, coffee, fruit, fruit juices, etc.)
very nice colleauges!
very good working culture!
flexible working hour!
lot of entertainments: big 2, cards, board game, Qsoccer,etc.
nice working location: 5 mins from KLCC lrt station.

Requirements

[ NOTE: You do not need to know all of the requirements listed below. :) ]

Bachelor’s degree in computer science, econometrics or similar
the ability to operate on a high abstraction and analytical level
experience with object-oriented programming (Java, C++, Delphi, Smalltalk, Eiffel) or 4GL’s (G2, Aion, etc.)
knowledge of optimization techniques in operations research and artificial intelligence (linear programming, genetic algorithms, heuristic search techniques, constraint programming, etc.)
sound judgment in software technology (.NET, XML) and databases (ODBC, Oracle, SQLServer)

send your resume to me if you would like to join us!

九张图片看出你的性格

2009-01-02T18:30:00.003+08:00

这是一个十分有趣的心理测验，而且非常简单准确。

这些图片是科学家跟一位心理学家一起合作的成果，并且经过历时几年的全球性测试，他们收到这个研究的响应之后，再小心地调较各个图片的颜色及形状，然后再次进行测试，直至他们得到这些非常成功的图片，这些图片代表了九种不同的性格。据称这是全球最准确的性格测试。希望你喜欢这个测验！快来看看你们的性格如何吧。测试图片如下，最好在 5 秒钟内选出你喜欢的图片，不要犹豫 !

I chose picture number 3. [hehe, as i could not type chinese character at the time of posting this ]

答案：

1.. 无忧无虑，顽皮，愉快的人
你喜欢自由自在，无拘无束的生活。
你的座右铭是：生命只能活一次，因此你尽量享受每一刻。
你好奇心旺盛，对新事物抱有开放的态度；你向往改变，讨厌束缚。
你觉得身边的环境都不断在变，而且经常为你带来惊喜。

2. 独立，前卫，不受拘束
你追求自由及不受拘束，自我的生活。
你的工作及消闲活动都与艺术有关。
你对于自由的渴求有时候会使你做出令人出人意表的事。
你的生活方式极具个人色彩；你永远不会盲目追逐潮流。
相反地，你会根据自己的意思和信念去生活，就算是逆流而上也在所不惜。

3. 时常自我反省 , 敏感的思想家
你对于自己及四周的环境能够比一般人控制得更好更彻底。
你讨厌表面化及肤浅的东西；你宁愿独自一人也不愿跟别人闲谈，但你跟朋友的关系却非常深入，这令你的心境保持和谐安逸。
你不介意长时间独自一人，而且绝少会觉得沉闷。

4. 务实，头脑清醒，和谐
你作风自然，喜欢简单的东西。
人们欣赏你脚踏实地，他们觉得你稳重，值得信赖。
你能够给予身边的人安全感，你给人一种亲切，温暖的感觉。
你对于俗气的，花花绿绿的东西都不屑一顾，对时装潮流抱着怀疑的态度；
对于你来说，衣服必须是实用及大方得体的。

5. 专业，实事求事，自信
你掌管自己的生活，你相信自己的能力多于相信命运的安排。
你以实际，简单的方式去解决问题。
你对日常生活中所遇到的事物抱有现实的睇法，并且能够应付自如。
人们知道你可担重任，因此都放心把大量工作交给你处理。
你那坚强的意志使你时刻都充满信心。
未达到自己的目标之前，你绝不罢休。

6. 温和，谨慎，无攻击性
你生性随和，但处事谨慎。
你很容易认识朋友，但同时享受你的私人时间及独立生活。
有时候，你会从人群中抽身而出，一个人静静地思考生活的意义，并自娱一番。
你需要个人的空间，因此有时会隐匿于美梦当中，但你并不是一个爱孤独的人。
你跟自己及这个世界都能够和陆共处，而你对现状亦非常满意。

7. 具分析力，可靠，自信
你对事物的灵敏度令你可以发现到旁人忽略了的东西。
这些就是你的宝石，你喜欢发掘这些美好的东西。
你的教养对于你的生活有很特别的影响。
你有自己高雅独特的一套，无视任何时装潮流。
你的理想生活是优雅而愉快的，而你亦希望跟你接触的人们都是高雅而有教养的。

8. 浪漫，爱幻想，情绪化
你是一个感性的人。你拒绝只从一个严肃，理智的角度去理解事物。
你的感觉亦十分重要。事实上，你觉得人生必需要有梦想才叫活得充实。
你不接受那些轻视浪漫主义及被理智牵着鼻子走的人；
而且不会让任何事物影响到你那丰富的感情及情绪。

9. 精力充沛，好动，外向
你不介意冒险，特别喜欢有趣的，多元化的工作。
相比之下，例行公事及惯例会令你没精打采。
你最兴奋的是可以积极参与任何比赛活动，因为这样你就可以在众人面前大显身手了。

在2008未成為歷史之前。。。。

2008-12-30T21:58:00.003+08:00

那天看到manhand這個樂團的名字，覺得很奇怪（對不起，我不會欣賞），但也有點特別。

不一會兒，腦筋一閃，manhand可拼成中文的滿漢，然后再閃，manhand can see 也可被拼成滿漢全席.三閃，若是manhand樂團和著名的烹飪家，yancancook（甄能煮），一起同臺演出，到時喜歡吃和聽（感官享受）的朋友，就能大飽口耳福了，可以一面聽著好音樂（好不好聽，個人喜好，冷暖自知，我沒意見），一面吃著滿漢全席（manhand can see），還不錯嘛！？而這個新組合的名字，想必聰明的你也能想到了吧，對了，就是 yan can cook manhand can see （中譯：甄能煮滿漢全席。

【ei, 讀到這里，你一定是在想，醬也可以啊，like that also can ah, ini macam pun boleh！朋友，可以啦，為什么不可以？Malaysia BOLEH 嘛! 但請別以為我是那種 beh tahan 的 Malaysia BOLEH, 我是kuat kuat de BOLEH 咧！】

還沒有完的，下面還有更精彩的：
先讓聰明的你，或現在正無聊的你猜猜看吧!

任務：翻譯成英文
酬勞：統統解對，miscal我，我給你一個愛的鼓勵！
（你又再說，醬也可以，ei，朋友，Why not？）

1. 十八個底
2. 因為是門的鈴
3. 死跌不樂
4. 優必得福
5. 特拉非克尖濹
6. 黑皮牛耳
7. 克里斯媽斯
8. 彎右

哈哈，還好吧。
答案揭曉啦：

1. spaghetti
2. investment link
3. staple
4. you beautiful ( no grammar matters in creativity)
5. traffic jammer (我會在下一個貼解釋什么是 traffic jammer)
6. happy new year ( 對了，也在這里祝你新年快樂，記得你永在我心哦！）
7. christmas （希望沒有冒犯到慶祝圣誕的朋友， :) )
8. One U ( One Utama啦，哈哈，頂不順吧！）

最后，再來兩個：

9. 如果很多男生及女生都很有分量，很胖，你要怎樣有創意地形容他們呢？（不要誤會，
我沒有要取笑肥胖的人，我也是不瘦的人）
10. 你聽過 "有早知就沒黑衣" 嗎？你知道是什么意思嗎？

答案揭曉：
9. 男女瘦瘦不輕
10. 用廣東音來讀，你就知道答案了。

好啦，其實想了和寫了這么多亂七八糟，無厘頭，醬也可以的東西，你可以笑我癡，笑我
瘋，笑我傻，但我要轉達的信息是有什么不可以呢？為什么不可以呢？（當然我是指好的事，不是指不好的事，沒有人叫你做了壞事，然后為自己辯解：為什么不可以呢？做了不好的事，肯定要負責任的，ok。）為什么我們很容易被所謂的框框套住了呢? 被限制了呢？為什么有時做事的方法一定要這樣這樣，不可以那樣那樣呢？再強調一次，我是指在作對的，好的事情上，不是在不好的事情上。

當然做事的精神準則，意義，原則是肯定不可以改變的，能夠嘗試轉換的是其方法，能夠嘗試創新的是其議程（process），能夠領先的是其點子，而點子又是如何來的呢？對了，就是傻！就是不看不起看起來沒用的點子。但如何能看得出看起來沒用的點子其實也是有用的呢？那就要看你怎樣看了，哈哈哈哈！

好了，就此停鍵盤。啊，對了，沒人叫你讀這篇貼，是你自己要讀的，若要彈，要贊，有同意或不同意的地方，請不要自己在嘴巴里唸，給comment比較實際咯。

在我忘記之前，對了，過了明天就是2009年了，祝您
> 有個美好的一年，愿身體健康，
> 天天保持開朗的心，
> 以感恩的心迎接每一件好與不好的事，因為每件事情的發生，必有其原因。
記住，在每件一事情的發生，你不是得到了什么，就是學到了什么。若事情發生了
，您沒得到什么，也沒學到什么，那您要好好去想一想了，好好思考了。

明年見啦！

Corroboree 2008

2008-12-20T01:06:00.009+08:00

i went to Australia this November to attend Corroboree, it was a nice and unforgettable gathering. It was the 1st time i visited English speaking country. Australia is a very nice, beautiful, fresh, well-preserved country, i can say. I do not know how to describe that, but i am sure you also feel or know that Australia is a unique country of its own.

again, after attending the 8 days Corroboree, i wrote the poem below just for sharing:

Coming from different places,
Over to this corroboree,
Radiant welcome warms our heart,
Reunion, this is what i call,
Oh, now i understand that, love
Bring us together as one,
One two three and back to one,
Remember i will always in my heart,
Every moment we have shared,
Every lesson we have learnt

i did not visit city in Australia, but mainly spent my days in country side. To be specific, i stayed in Shepparton, which is known as fruit bowl of Australia. And i can feel and see with my eyes that, Australia, is really a big country. Along the highway from Melbourne Airport to Shepparton ( or any city you go), you can see big big fields with cows, goats, sheeps, horses...

and you can always easily see blue sky white could, and the scenery there is really maginificent, really beautiful, you can easily take any photo and set it as nice wall paper without editing, dont believe me [ sorry, my keyboard apostrophe key is not working, ;( ], see the picture below, i just took it as it is, not any editing, some more i m not really good in taking photo, but how do you think?

while in Australia, i stayed in uncle Simmon and aunty Monique house, they are really kind and made us a sense of home while staying in their house. Thank you, uncle Simmon and Aunty Monique, and also Ding Xen, their son, who helped to fetch us from Airport. I have known Ding Zen since 1998, and they migrated to Australia in year 1999. time really flies. When Ding Zen saw me in airport, haha, he could not recognize me [i think mainly because i m getting older and not as thin as what my image he has in his memory many years back, he was 12 when i know him ], but i m really happy that he still remember me. Ding Zen, nice to meet you again in Australia.

That is all for this post about my trip. More to come soon.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you! Good year ahead!

看著白云。。。

2008-12-16T00:29:00.005+08:00

～攝于澳洲 · mt.buffalo

那天，看著藍天白云，我寫下了下面的幾行字：

人生如逆旅，光陰的過客，
這婆娑世界，活在這一刻。

魚在水中游，水中不知水，
人在福中求，福中不知福。

要感謝父母，養育子女恩，
供書教學苦，起居生活奔。

一天又一天，一年又一年，
終長大成人，多少期望盼。

到底為什么，會來這一趟，
會來這一趟，到底為什么。

七十古來稀，四十才開始，
輕易就放棄，你說值不值？

要相信自己，要發揮自己，
人可以勸你，抉擇在自己。

藍天與白云，總是那么美，
想著你和我，回憶里最美。

看著藍天白云，你，又想起了什么？
還是，你很久沒抬頭仰望天空了？若是，就找一天，看看你頭上的藍天吧！
活著，不是為了工作，但工作，是為了能繼續活著，
活著，是為了能繼續活著，繼續活著，又是否是為了活著？
如果你被我所講的給弄混淆了，對不起，我不是有心的，但這至少證明了你還活著。
好了，我也不知我在說什么了，還是就此停鍵盤吧.
最后，祝你快樂！

Christian THE LION...

2008-11-09T23:40:00.002+08:00

this is pretty amazing, my tears went down when i watched this video clip.

watch it, and share with the whole world! millions have been touched by this great love between human and animals!

"we all come from the same source." ~unknown.

Great MAN, Great LOVE, great STORY!

2008-11-09T23:32:00.001+08:00

A true story.

One day, a son asked his dad: "Daddy, would you like to run a marathon with me?"

The father said "yes".

And they ran their first marathon together.

Another time, the son asked his dad again. "Daddy, would you like to run a marathon with me?". The father said: "Yes son."

One day, the son asked his father: "Daddy, would you run the Ironman with me?"

The Ironman is the most difficult triathlon ever (4km swimming, 180 km biking, 42km running).

And the dad said "yes".

The story looks simple until you watch the following clip. It's just amazing how great love can be...

aspiration comes from inspiration

2008-11-07T21:31:00.003+08:00

Obstacles never turn us down
Believe is an attitude
Always positive we are
Miracle is coming our way
Aspiration comes from inspiration

You will like this...

2008-11-06T22:32:00.001+08:00

稻香，第二次尝试

2008-10-26T20:03:00.005+08:00

2008年度第一届妈赖息丫金猴子奖

2008-10-25T01:17:00.001+08:00

read this from some place....quite funny.....laugh la!

最佳电影：《308之夜》
最佳导演：安华《916之梦》
最佳男主角：伯拉《梦中人》
最佳女主角：郭素沁《监狱风云之火箭十三妹》
最佳男配角：阿末伊斯迈《寄人篱下》
最佳女配角：陈云清《洗冤录3》
最佳新人：赛夫《股惑仔之后庭开花》
最具人气：柏特拉《光头博客》
最佳外国电影 / 最佳编剧 / 最佳特效 / 最佳剪接：纳吉《人肉叉烧包之蒙古碎尸》

最佳本土电影：《林甘正传》
最佳成人电影：《老蔡传奇之同一个房间》
最佳悬疑片：《C+侦探之一切由失踪开始》
最佳恐怖片：《午夜凶令之ISA》
最佳旅游宣传片：《远走高飞之台湾考察团》

终身成就奖：《敦马》

what a day!

2008-10-20T21:05:00.007+08:00

Day: 16, Month: 10, Year: 2008

"hi, how much u get?" Now i'm watching tat.U too?"

"Hi i saw u on tv. so nice attending da game show."

"HI, i see u at tv, how u participant that tv program?"

"oh, like tat la, big amount bo? when u went de?"

"haha frien, this is the first time watching, v funny!"

"watch tv, we are there."

"hey, samuel here, pls tune into tv, you are in the tv."

"wah, so fast 50K 75k 100K gone dy."

"ei, you on tv again! how you apply to play? hehe"

"hi, u on tv wo."

"haha...ok i'll c wat's coming next..."

"hey fren, how much? RM10000 ya? ha...ha :)"

"RM , not bad la...but sayang lor...ur suitcase 10K..."

"handsome wor, got free bonus! ha ha!"

"Haiyo! ur 10K fly away liao...Haha..Anyway graxz n good9 ;)"

"congratulation! won RM, is not bad! ;-) well done! :-)"

"Congrates, u won! whether 100K or 10cts. most important u got something..Yr spirit was really good. Ade"

"Aiyo, why u sell the box? Haha"

"So, you've got rm...good good. got extra $ to spend. :) saw some old friends on tv also, they still the same, still very funny.Haha.."

marie digby ~ say it again

2008-10-10T16:18:00.001+08:00

marie digby, half Irish and half Japanes, popular Internet musician and singer...like her very much..

<<最初的美好>>

2008-10-07T20:31:00.006+08:00

天与地，月和日，自然的定律，

多少世，难忘记，岁月已飞逝，
不再续，想放弃，谁说太容易，

我和你，在那里，多美的际遇，
星空里，下着雨，花瓣的诗意，
脑海里，成回忆，永远的记忆，

最初的美好，是否还美好，
拿起了多少，你记得多少，
父母已经老，要待他们好，
人生的试考，谁人可以跑？

最后的美好，珍惜才能找，
放下了多少，我已记不了，
岁月催人老，你看开就好，
世事庸人找，哈哈没烦恼。

before and after

2008-09-22T23:36:00.004+08:00

i know i will meet you, before i know i have eyes,
i know i will talk to you, before i know i have mouth,
i know i will online because of you, before i know internet,
i know i will drive all the way, before i know the moving machine,
i know i will not able to concentrate in coding, before i know what is java,
i know i will leave me alone, before i know i am living in a world called greed,
i know i will leave you happy, before i know you have to go through this unhappy;

i wish i can enter into the space, which i might get wounded,
i wish i can do what i think i can do ( for you), where it might be too much ( for you),
i wish i can take away my mind, which the core 2 duo is not even one over million of it,
i wish i can wish that i no need to wish, which u might not know what i wrote in this line,

i knew i will still meeting you, after i know i have my eyes,
i knew i will still talk to you, after i know i have my mouth,
i knew i will still online because of you, after i know the Internet,
i knew i will drive all the way, after i know this moving machine,
i knew i will still not able to concentrate in coding, after i know java,
i knew i will leave me alone, after i know i live in this greedy world,
i knew i will leave you happy, after i know you already gone through the unhappy.

[p/s: the author uses "knew", "know" as he likes, no grammar matter when comes to expression.]

<<自然 - 淡然>>

2008-09-19T22:51:00.005+08:00

雁渡寒潭，雁去潭不留影；
风动幡动，仰或你心在动；
正念负念，就在那一转念；
没有失败，成功还未到位；
因为相信，所以相信；
愿意相信，才会相信；

春夏秋冬，时光它无影踪；
酸甜苦辣，人生滋味尽尝;
黑白之间，是否总是带灰；
向左向右，难选还得要走；
季节味道，颜色方向；
因循自然，方得淡然。

because of you....

2008-09-19T09:25:00.003+08:00

because of you,
  my place is here; ( where will i be in the future? i am not sure..)
because of you,
  all i want to do is get away and hide in a new place;
because of you,
  life has never been this "good"...
because of you,
  answer is in everybody's heart
because of you,
  yesterday i miss the most;
because of you,
  so what else more can i expect from you?
because of you,
  i can always see cloud(s) in the sky.
because of you,
  a change would be a better tomorrow.

[P/S: look at the 1st character of every even number line..]

your life, your script

2008-09-16T08:56:00.004+08:00

when you are you, you live your script;

when you are not you, you script your life.

Plato and his famous Allegory of the Cave

2008-09-12T10:24:00.002+08:00

Take Plato, for instance. Together with Socrates and Aristotle, he is one of the founders of Western culture. Famous for writing up the Socrates dialogues, he also wrote some works of his own, one of which is The Republic. In this work, he describes his famous Allegory of the Cave, which goes something like this:

Imagine prisoners, who have been chained since their childhood deep inside a cave: not only are their limbs immobilized by the chains; their heads are chained in one direction as well so that their gaze is fixed on a wall.

Behind the prisoners is an enormous fire, and between the fire and the prisoners is a raised walkway, along which puppets of various animals, plants, and other things are moved along. The puppets cast shadows on the wall, and the prisoners watch these shadows. When one of the puppet-carriers speaks, an echo against the wall causes the prisoners to believe that the words come from the shadows.

The prisoners engage in what appears to us to be a game: naming the shapes as they come by. This, however, is the only reality that they know, even though they are seeing merely shadows of objects. They are thus conditioned to judge the quality of one another by their skill in quickly naming the shapes and dislike those who play poorly.

There are many interpretations of this allegory, but for me it has always been about not knowing the true reality of things; we only see shadows cast on the cave wall.

what is flexibility in life?

2008-09-08T12:07:00.006+08:00

what is flexibility in life?

flexibility is
when you buy me a Porsche, i am happy,
but if you buy me a bicycle, i am happy too.

flexibility is
when you spend me a fine cuisine, i am happy,
but if you spend me a "roti canai", i am happy too.

flexibility is
when you buy me a LV bag, i am happy,
but if you buy me a power ranger bag, i am happy too.

flexibility is
when you praise me, i am happy,
but if you criticize me, i will not feel sad, however, i will thank you.

flexibility is
when i can write a good program, i am happy,
but if i m not success in that, i will not simply give up.

flexibility is
when you buy me a mansion, i am happy,
but if you buy me an "atap house", i am happy too.

flexibility is
when i have gathering with lots of friend, i am happy,
but if i am alone reading in my little room, i am happy too.

flexibility is
when you bring me to theme park, i am happy,
but if you bring me to desert, i am happy too.

flexibility is
when you give me flexibility, i am happy,
but if you do not give me any flexibility, i am OK too.

hence,
i live my life as i live my life,
i am happy despite of the surrounding, environment
i am happy regardless of any thing that happened to me,
i am happy because i m happy.

"I am contented with what i have,
but not dejected because of what i do not have."
~ [forgot who quoted this, :) ]

不知为什么

2008-09-01T12:48:00.001+08:00

昨天回来之后，不知道为什么，
好像接近世界末日似的，突然间，
不知道要做什么，心里很空洞，空虚，

难道真的是碰到所谓的，达成了想要做的事，
人就会突然变得没有目标，失去方向，
就好像很多太空人上了太空，回来都得了忧郁症，
一个两个都需要心理治疗，不然有的还想去自杀，
哈哈，我当然不会去自杀的啦，
人身难得，生命可贵，
况且我妈妈十月怀胎，如此辛苦把我生出来，
我不会令她失望的，何况我不是个普通人呢（我常常这样告诉我自己的）！

我想飞去那美丽的天空，快乐遨游，飞翔，跟你，
但是，我还没回到地上，我不知怎样飞上去；
等有一天，我着陆了，我会飞的。

人活在这个世界上，真的可以做自己想要做的事吗？
真的可以，无拘无束，逍遥自在，不顾一切，勇往直前吗？
真的可以，义无反顾，海阔天空，老鼠爱大米吗？

忽近忽远，忽明忽暗，
忽乐忽悲，忽然想你；
我，会想一想，好好想一想，
我，该怎么做。

我非常喜欢的经典 << 情人的眼泪 >>

2008-08-31T03:46:00.001+08:00

my brother's album ~ elegant farewell ~

2008-08-27T22:54:00.005+08:00

~ ANNOUNCEMENT ~
**********************

from : derred _beh
to : you, the one who are reading this blog now...

what : help to promote my brother's song album blog...
where : you can visit his song album blog @ 纽约市优雅地离别 / elegant farewell
when : now la....click on the above link now lor...hehe.....
( but his album will be sold on year 08, month 09, day 10...so as 080910

to me, it is a good album...to know whether it is, go visit the blog...thanks...

you can, when you believe....hehe....ALL THE BEST, GAMBATE!

一個女生模仿很多人的聲音唱歌 ~ 彩虹

2008-08-24T14:29:00.000+08:00

<声母>+ong

2008-08-22T23:48:00.005+08:00

难以形容，你的从容，
昔日笑容，不再动容；

从前相同，现在不同，
不能一同，达致共同；

看似很懂，其实不懂，
我只是懂，我不曾懂；

空会是空，因为它空，
你看它空，其实不空；

满脸通红，只为花红，
看满江红，考试也红；

人群之中，秀外慧中，
空气之中，香味其中。

<<十份天真>>

2008-08-22T23:37:00.006+08:00

十点十分，想你十分，
嘴角迷人，动人十分；

夜已入深，思绪低沉，
浮华人生，只在一睁；

我的心声，能否成真，
已不敢问，也不愿问；

到底人生，为何而争，为谁情深，已失天真。

拓展新日

2008-08-22T23:25:00.005+08:00

时光飞逝，我已不是，等闲之士；

回首旧日，胆小幼稚，没有见识；

没有那次，哪有这次；
没有上次，哪有下次；

我的心事，谁能透视，已无关事；
抛开旧识，从新展翅，东升旭日；

心要有志，更要尝试；
写下伟迹，拓展新日。

(verb)-ING

2008-08-21T13:56:00.004+08:00

outside raining, my heart dying,
something going, without knowing;

some time passing, patience losing,
keep on going, or just leaving;

another thing, another scene,
memorizing, the current scene;

the end is the beginning of another end,
leaving is the meeting of another leaving,
breaking is the joining of another breaking;

i am leaving, with my wishing,
wish you be good, wish you be strong,

never knowing, this happening,
some thing is fixed, we just accept.

近 - 远

2008-08-16T02:33:00.004+08:00

看似很近却又有点距离
那些期待已久的日子
是否就快呈现清晰
总是莫名的想起
我已不能自己
就是想一起
离开这里
到哪里
不必
理
可以
就一直
就这样子
看着你影子
就能填满日子
籍这首诗把事记
那红豆依然最相思
期盼时间在这刻静止
让我能永远冰封这记忆

<<寄给你>>

2008-08-12T21:48:00.004+08:00

夜
低垂
成思念
莫名感觉
涌入我心彻
宛如秋风吹起
掠过我内心最深
就在这深秋的寂夜
不知你是否也望着月
一见一语一面一句默契
总在辞别时掩我不舍
不能不记得去记得
你的眼眸你身影
秋风它又吹起
我已告诉它
这份祝福
满满的
寄给
你

what am i doin..be there for you

2008-08-06T05:24:00.002+08:00

woke up early, thought i was late,
quickly got to, the place we meet,
hoping to see, that you are there,
opened my eye, opened machine,
waiting awhile, then i am there.

did not see you, but it is ok,
because i know, you are tire,
tire of life, tire of work,
so i hope you, could take more rest,
really worry, about your health,
really really, worry your health.

told me before, it's not easy,
i understand, your situation,
but this is life, you have to face,
got to be stronger, do what you can,
and i believe, you can do that,
and especially, when you believe.

never give up, never give up,
when you go through, this crazy life,
and it will be, the time that you,
grow up the most, you learn the most,
better future, light up for you,
i sincerely, wish you the best,
and remember, i will always,
be there for you, I'll come to you.
be there for you, always for you.

妈妈，对不起，谢谢你。

2008-08-04T23:32:00.004+08:00

最近不知为什么，有时和妈妈谈天，
谈得有说也有笑，可是有时当妈妈，
问到我一些问题，也不是你所想的，
那些严重的问题，或是恼人的问题，

可我会在那当时，一下忍不住自己，
提高嗓子回妈妈，语气也不是很好，

过后才知道自己，刚才不应该这样。

其实曾经跟自己，讲过不该这样子，
说好和妈妈聊天，就要好好听她说，
不要打断她的话，还要好好回答她，
再给她一个微笑，可我还没能做到。

也不是说我常常，会对妈妈太大声，
只是觉得自己啊，实在是个不孝子，
妈妈辛苦养大我，给我世上最好的，
小时生病照顾我，就算长大也一样，
她老人家的心里，孩子永远长不大，
时时念念都挂着，我们过得否快乐，
从来不是为自己，就算已经六十一。

妈妈真的对不起，伤你的心我愧疚，
如何做个好孩子，是我一生的功课，
你的辛苦与牺牲，比天还高比海深，
就算用尽我一生，也不足以来报答。

在此我要说一声，其实也不只一声，
而是很多很多声，妈妈妈妈谢谢你，
我会改变我自己，好好的陪你聊天，
和你聊天到天明，让你快乐又高兴，
这是我八月五日，许下的一个心愿，

夜~ 12：15

jay chou ~ a secret can not tell's back to 20 years piano

2008-08-03T20:04:00.002+08:00

hi, found this in youtube, think that it is very nice, so just share with you all..good day..

知道與做到

2008-07-31T21:52:00.003+08:00

因為你知道, 所以你做得到;
因為你不知道, 所以你做不到;

而
也因為你不知道, 所以你做得到;
又因為你知道, 所以你做不到.

最後,
知道或不知道, 並不能決定你做得到或做不到,
而是, 在你的內心深處, 是否曾經相信, 相信你做得到.

A calm ocean will never make a strong sailor

2008-07-15T21:16:00.003+08:00

i can understand your feeling very well...i am also in a situation same as you now...

but we should never give up.....u know...you are not defeated when you fall down...but when you do not stand up and continue your journey....

life is like that...it is never easy....yes, never easy..see...i still keep in myself as positive as i could...i never say life is hard or difficult...i use a preceded positive word with a not....we still see the word "easy"....this is how our mind works, or more precisely, the way our sub conscious mind works..it just always ignore the word "NOT"....and just accept the adjective or the word after the ''NOT" or "NO"....

do not believe me....ok...like this....please do not think about the Eiffel tower in Paris....bet you...your are thinking about the Eiffel tower which i ask you do not think about it.....Don't think that i am laughing at you...hehe....once again...i believe your mind just thought of the way i laugh at you...correct....Oops...may be u never saw the way i laugh at you...hehe...

what i am try to say here is no matter what happen...we still have to keep ourselves as positive as we could....because at the end of the day...your are either happy or not happy...and you still have to live your day..am i right?...at this moment...i suddenly thought of a meaningful quotation which goes like this ~~ "to cultivate a positive thinking is better than earning a thousand pounds a year"...this quotation is as old as about 200 years already..

stress and change are necessary in our life...but i never ask you to purposely go to find or look for stress la.....they will some how come to you....we just accept them..and try to cope with them...the more we fight back with them ( stress )..the suffer we are....accept the reasonable changes.....and embrace it.....because next time when we look back our life with the most difficult stage...it is actually the time that we learn and grow the most...we become stronger and mature and steady because of those tough time....

remember, a calm ocean will never make a good sailor....it is the cruel ocean and wave that make you stronger....

wish you happy....again, you can when you believe....

rgds, :)

Good Riddance ( time of your life ) ~~ GrEeN DaY

2008-07-08T20:07:00.006+08:00

hi, suddenly thinking about a song that i used to love it very much when i was in Form 5, haha, couple years ago...

the song is --> Good riddance ( time of your life ) by Green Day..

I still remember and always remember that this song was introduced to me by my younger brother who actually started to learn playing guitar when he was about form 2...

i like the lyrics very much, and i actually did copy the lyrics on the back of my school uniform, and treat it as graduation memory and let all my classmates have their signature on it...however, after moving out to KL, don't know where my mum and I put the uniform already, else it will be some kind of memory and valuable already...-_-'''', sad lor...

yes, my hometown is Sekinchan. Sekinchan can be considered as a small pekan ( town or village, i don't know ) in North Selangor, go further north about 20 mins from Kuala Selangor. The name Sekinchan is taken from chinese name --> 適耕莊 as 適合耕種的村莊...it has a lot of paddy fields on your right hand side ( when you visit it ), and seaside of your left...so there are also a lot of seafood...many visitors from all over malaysia like to have seafood in my hometown, only if they know la....

alamak, actually my main aim for this post is to share with you all the lyrics and this song --> good riddance ( time of your life )...see below..

yes, another important thing...still remember i mentioned about my younger brother, he used to have nick called abe....haha, a bit like the former Japanese PM's name ler...tell you what, my brother is going to have his 1st album release in this coming August 08, hehe, of course not like those official singer who really from what SONY, BMG or whatever lar....aiya, i can not remember the way he sells the CD...will let you know afterward...but only if u want to know lar.....Mm...to me, his song is good and special..full of sentimental + feel as well....

you can have some of my brother's demo at
1. neuyabe myspace music
2 neuyabe's blog

and, as i promised, below is the lyrics + video of Good Riddance ( time of your life's lyrics)

Another turning point
A fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist
Directs you where to go
So make the best of this test
And don't ask why
It's not a question
But a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

So take the photographs
And still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf of good health
And good time
Tattoos of memories
And dead skin on trial
For what it's worth
It was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

讓自己成長的守則 ( 五之二 )

2008-07-08T19:59:00.001+08:00

這是接上個帖的讓讓自己成長的守則之二

11.將心比心
12.自己要不斷地嘗試
13.不要輕易地放棄
14.讓自己知道存在的價值
15.不要輕易地瞧不起自己
16.對自己的作為要收歛一點
17.勿生氣..因為生氣是拿別人做錯的事來懲罰自己
18.無論在何地何時..自己要有所安慰
19.每天告訴自己一次..我真的很不錯
20.每日對自己要有所期望

加油加油! you can, when you believe..

讓自己成長的守則 ( 1st of 5 series )

2008-06-22T17:35:00.002+08:00

嗨, 大家好, 答應過自己每個星期至少要寫一個貼 (post)，這個星期沒有甚麼idea, 但突然想到曾經收到的forwarded email, 關於很多很多個很好的讓我們成長的守則..
Mm, 有五十個左右, 都是值得讓我們去學習及落實的,
再此和大家一起分享...我會分五次來貼...這是一之五..

讓自己成長的守則:

1.每件事都要做得更好更完美
2.永遠希望一天比一天更好
3.希望自己更快樂
4.相信自己
5.給自己有信心的一天
6.常讓自己的舌頭更靈活
7.每天給自己一個獎勵
8.一天中..自己要讓自己知道成長了多少
9.超越自己
10.常讓自己往好處想

大家加油! YEAH YEAH!

law of attraction ~ some physic theories to make you understand it better, perhaps... : )

2008-06-15T19:44:00.008+08:00

Mm...the topic of ''law of attraction'' (LOA) has made a great impact and phenomenon in this 21st century, where it was actually understood and practiced by many successful and great persons in the past...like albert einstein ( one of my favorite all time scientist and human being ), sorry that forgot to name the rest...but a couples of them....u can go google it about this...and i will come back to edit the list when i can get the list...

ok, so what is the ''law of attraction'' talking about? what on earth is it? haha, i guess you might have already read the book titled ''the secret'' written by Rhonda, [ OOps, not the movie ''the secret'' directed and played by Jay Chou..hehe, but also my all time favorite movie ]...and you may have an idea about what the law of attraction is......some kind like...you will experience and get from what you think..put in short.... { what within, hence with--out } ..

and I am here to present some easy to understand and remember day-to-day example to let you understand better about the LOA..

I believe any Malaysian students while in primary school would have given an essay titled 'my bad day''....or in malay'' hari termalang buat aku''.....because it is an essay, hence we were ''taught'' to have at least about 5 points...to score high marks....as a kid, we couldn 't think much, so, we normally go and peek and copy our friends essay, or we can say sharing the point....to make our essay to have 5 points at least....funny was'nt it.....i bet you also did so....if not, pls put comment on this post..so i can know you......

now, come back to our main title, i have a question for you here.....do you think:
1. it is the bad things that happen to you..?
OR
2. you ask those bad things to happen to you....or simply -> you asked for it?

Huh...you must be asking...''what are you asking here...how can i be so stupid to ask those bad things to happen to me..NEVER,....NEVER.EVER...."

ok, be calm....be cool.....i will give you some examples to help you understand that...we, as the concept the LOA revealed...create our own destiny....we are the source, the creator, or the reason behind most of the things, if not all the things that happen to us....

ok..here come the easy to understand LOA thoery...( the are 4 altogether..)

Theory #1 > Radio FM
************************
when we tune in the radio fm..let say you tune to 99.8, then you got 99.8 station...when you tune to 105.7...you got lite FM....if 92.9...HITZ FM for sure....it might looks stupid point to you here at the moment... but the question is, how and why do you get the specific station when you tune to the specific FM..correct, it is about the frequency....because your radio has the SAME FREQUENCY..as the frequency aired by the station....simple isn't....see, you never move an inch, but by changing the frequency, you can get the different station you like....it is because of they are having the same frequency..

Thoery #2 > Pianos
*******************
i have never tried this before....and may be some of you who know how to play piano might knew this...and you can also go try it out.....
I read this from a book which says.." if we have 2 pianos in one room...and if i press on the...say...'DO' key....( at this moment, of course the string connected to the button will vibrate..hence we hear the sound..) and the point is..the same 'DO' button's string in the 2nd piano will also vibrate (yes, the string, not the button.) ...Amazing isn't it? yes, it is true...although i have never tried it out....and what we want to ponder here is >> why will the string vibrate even though we never touch the button of the second piano ? ...again, as you might already knew..it is because they have the same frequency.....

Thoery #3 > Soldier's marching....
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when soldiers doing marching on normal ground...they will follow a consistent ''left, left..left, right..left.." step..i mean every one having the same steps.....but do you know that, when they march across a bridge...they will and have to purposely make their marching steps inconsistent...so, you do you step...i do my step...no need to be consistent....REASON?
again, as some of you have already guessed the reason....yes...they just afraid that...their marching frequency ( yes, there are also frequency on marching...more on this later....) will make the bridge collapse.....interesting isn't it....but believe me...or believe the nature or not...IT IS TRUE..!

Theory #4 > Device Plugged-on building
*********************************
A creative scientist has invented a device that can calculate the frequency of almost everything that it connected to or plugs-on to...and the point is, then the connected object will explode..and gone!
and one day..he tried to plug on his 'mighty' device to a under construction building...and after awhile...the building started to shake...and the workers felt the shaking and all stop their work and went down....after seeing all this...the scientist just plugged out the connector.....and he said to himself...'' if i continue for another 5 mins, ......", i know you can expect what will happen..
and again, why?....( hehe..i like to ask why so much.....as quoted by Einstein..." The important thing is not to stop questioning...) and you are not left...( means, you are right, as "not left" = right lor...hehe)..SAME FREQUENCY....

ok, enough with the 4 theories..they might be quite tense for you read already..hence, have a break, have a "kit-kat"

hold on..before describe further on the bad day idea...lemme clarify some points in the next paragraph...

> derred's clarification...
1. i am not really major in physic....i just know some theories and concepts of physic....and i understand and confirmed what mentioned above are all true......and if you want to know more about frequency or about more in depth about '' Quantum physic"... visit the links below

1. Quantum Physic theory at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zMr7Z_f0jM

2. Quantum Physic applied to mind power at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-fba4OD208

3. Short Summary of Quantum Physics: Quantum Theory / Wave Mechanics

4. Dr Quantum - quantum physics simplified!

> 2nd clarification
It is not all always about the same frequency and then the objects will collapse or explode...else our radio in house would have already explode when we tune to lite FM...and as i said i am not a physics....you can go google more about that...and pls share with me when you got those concept...hehe, we learn and share together..

BACK to our Bad Day example..
==============================
ok, now continue about the explanation about our "bad day"...

the truth is, not only the physical object that we can see or touch have their own frequency..(for FYI..everything that we can see, or even can not see ,like air..also has its own frequency...)..even our THOUGHT also HAS its FREQUENCY....some scientist have already proved this...i will google more about it...and write more about it in future post....do come back when you free...

So, let's recall back.....when you wake up in the morning...1 bad thing happen...and you start thinking..what a bad things....so BAD..!!! your mind are full of "bad", 'unlucky"...thought....or just called them negative thought....and perhaps later on..another bad thing happen again..then the more you think about it...and the more you think about it..the more it happens...and it becomes a cycle or a chain...and the more the bad things happen, the more you believe you are really having a bad day....as we read on the LAW of Attraction....
"I attract to my life whatever I give my attention, energy and focus to, whether positive or negative."

Remember...your thought does has its own frequency..so does the positive events or those bad negative events out there..they all have their frequency....as in the radio transmission scenario....there are many frequency out thre, but as you tune to 105.7..you get LITE FM because you attract the same frequency....so, think about it again...when you have NOT SO POSITIVE thought, you will tap into those negative frequency or vibration...and hence your outcome... ( see, i use the term not so positive thought, because I want to keep the sentence as positive as i could..by adding a NOT....our brain just always ignore the NOT key word...NOT beautiful...to our subconscious mind...it reads it as BEAUTIFUL....hehe.i will share about subconscious mind in future post..or if you can not wait to know about it..go search yourself...)

you might be wondering what is it about mind frequency? to me, and to make it simple to understand...it is some things like,but not limited to a person's mood....you see...you can always feel a person's mood....they no need to say anything..and you can feel their mood or feeling..you can even tell whether they are in good mood or bad mood....sure you experience this before...like when a tutor goes into your class...without he or she saying a single word, you can "feel" his/her mood...hehe...

and i believe you can still remember that, when one good thing happens to you...and you feel so happy and proud...then next good things happen to you....the more happier you are..then the whole day you say to yourself that you are like the most luckiest and happiest person in the world....hehe...it is all about your thought...remember, "we attract to our life whatever we give our attention, energy and focus to, whether positive or negative."

just last quotation by Einstein....
"At any rate, i m convinced that he (GOD) does not play dice.." he mentioned about this after he found out the quantum physic theory....

and finally i put some interesting and amazing experiment done by Dr. Masaru Emoto, a Japanese Scientist...about how our words, thoughts could affect the internal crystal molecule of water....

WATER CRYSTAL RELAXATION HEALING 512KPS HEALTH MEDITATION

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have a nice day..and you know what to do.... { think _positively } :) ALL the BEST!

侄女念慈的造句, 很可愛..

2008-06-07T17:53:00.000+08:00

今天, 兩個侄女, 念慈和念怡閒著沒事做, 慈慈就叫我給她做造句,所以就隨興給她一些...
就讀一年級的她大多數都會做, 只是有一題我看了覺得很好笑, 小朋友的直接和天真,真的是沒得講..
請看以下的造句吧....
有看到嗎...那題<頭髮>的....我看到的時候覺得超可愛的...我都不知道要給她對還是錯...哈哈..我覺得它不對...但也沒有錯...可能是數量詞不對吧了啦...

哈哈...以下就是念慈和念怡.....

what on earth, RM2.70/litre, crazy!!!!

2008-06-05T20:40:00.000+08:00

Malaysia ''superb'' government announced petrol price to increase 41%, from RM1.92 to RM2.70 yesterday, 4/6/08.

Malaysians are going to have a ''wonderful'' life in coming days...and the government is going to ask the citizens to ''Ubah Cara Hidup'' ( changing life style ). what we always say: '' really beh tahan lor...'' ( really -_-'' !!!)

and i received an amazing email this morning, about the oil price on other oil producing countries...
and i feel really sad and pain in my heart...what a superb government that we have here...

Mmmm, i don't want to talk more about this issue...you are smart, you know what i feel and mean...
wish us have a brighter future...!

即兴小詩 <<澤斯杜伊>>

2008-05-31T11:20:00.002+08:00

昨天晚上，朋友聊天;　談了很多，真的很多

從談話中，她講一句;　耐基口號，澤斯杜伊

我很肯定，你看不懂;　甚麼叫做，澤斯杜伊

再想一想，甚麼叫做;　澤斯杜伊，澤斯杜伊

哈哈哈哈，猜到了嗎;　如果不能，我將答案

公佈出來，讓你看看;　澤斯杜伊，英文就是

JUST D O I T; 　也真的巧，也八個字

可以美麗，放進這首;　我所謂的，八字小詩

對了對了，忘記提起; 讀著這篇，小詩的你

應該知道，我所說的;　那個朋友，就是你囉

言歸正傳，回到正題;　以前的我，很多時候

想得太多，拖得也多;　空有計畫，沒有半劃

像我媽媽，講的華語;　有福建音，沒有ｂａｎ4ｈｕａ4　（辦法）

那個時候，再次聽到;　澤斯杜伊，感受較深

較能體會，固中涵意;　謝謝朋友，你的提醒

從今以後，澤斯杜伊;　會在我心，JUST DO IT

我還記得，我也回你;　麥可喬丹，每天練習

刻苦投籃，每天六百;　台上十分，台下十年

今日成功，過去付出;　明日幸福，還看今日

這次我就，寫到這裡;　如果覺得，不錯的話

或有感受，歡迎留言;　祝你快樂，我的朋友

夜 2:45.

<<第十二天>>

2008-05-31T11:01:00.000+08:00

時間飛逝, 不知不覺; 這樣就已, 第十二天

一切從頭, 其實不易; 爸爸一直, 以來也說

世上萬事, 起頭皆難;.

可是始終, 還是這樣; 只要我們, 是有心人;

相信沒有, 甚麼困難; 可以阻擋, 我們去向;

肯定沒有, 甚麼風浪; 可以動搖, 我們意願;

必然沒有, 甚麼風雨; 可以吹毀, 我們決心.

還有一句, 也是爸爸; 在我中五, 鼓勵我的

船到橋頭, 自然會直; 其實不必, 顧慮太多

只要邁出, 那第一步; 山明水秀, 就在前方

告訴自己, 也告訴你; 是的是的, 也告訴你

你我人生, 不止這樣; 我們知道, 天生我才

你答對了, 勢必有用; 重要的是, 重要的是

發現自己, 改變自己; 多多去看, 多多肯定

我們自己, 種種優點; 不要去想, 不要去理

不要放大, 你的缺點;

讓我們哪, 一起加油; 明天肯定, 比今天好;

後天也會, 比明天好; 就是這樣, 越來越好;

哪怕只是, 好一點點; 可是已經, 很足夠了.

早晴夕雨．<<第十二天>>

“亲爱的宝贝，如果你能活着，一定要记住我爱你”

2008-05-28T00:10:00.000+08:00

亲爱的宝贝，如果你能活着，一定要记住我爱你”
抢救人员发现她的时候，她已经死了，是被垮塌下来的房子压死的，透过那一堆废墟的的间隙可以看到她死亡的姿势，双膝跪着，整个上身向前匍匐着，双手扶着地支撑着身体，有些象古人行跪拜礼，只是身体被压的变形了，看上去有些诡异。救援人员从废墟的空隙伸手进去确认了她已经死亡，又在冲着废墟喊了几声，用撬棍在在砖头上敲了几下，里面没有任何回应。当人群走到下一个建筑物的时候，救援队长忽然往回跑，边跑变喊“快过来”。他又来到她的尸体前，费力的把手伸进女人的身子底下摸索，他摸了几下高声的喊“有人，有个孩子，还活着”。经过一番努力，人们小心的把挡着她的废墟清理开，在她的身体下面躺着她的孩子，包在一个红色带黄花的小被子里，大概有3、4个月大，因为母亲身体庇护着，他毫发未伤，抱出来的时候，他还安静的睡着，他熟睡的脸让所有在场的人感到很温暖。　
随行的医生过来解开被子准备做些检查，发现有一部手机塞在被子里，医生下意识的看了下手机屏幕，发现屏幕上是一条已经写好的短信“亲爱的宝贝，如果你能活着，一定要记住我爱你”，看惯了生离死别的医生却在这一刻落泪了，手机传递着，每个看到短信的人都落泪了。

可是等到他（她）从梦种醒来，一切早已天崩地裂，物是人非.......
// * as i have moved this blog to my new a/c...below is the comment previously posted...

薰衣草燕子 said...那句话真的好感人！ from: 你 2005年 utar foundation 的学生

just want to share with you ~~ { Slight Edge Philosophy }

2008-05-28T00:08:00.000+08:00

still remember the conversation that i have with my youngest brother ( 2 yrs ''not older'' than me) on the 24th of April...of course year 2008 la.....we were talking about so many things.... and one of the great idea that he shared with me was a philosophy or concept known as "slight edge philosophy", which i found very meaningful, interesting, and seriously, very amazing...! and i suddenly think of that today, and hence the birth of this post.... : ) according to what he read online, my brother mentioned to me that "slight edge philosophy" is about the power of doing little, small, simple thing persistently in a long run, and you will see big and unexpected result when the time come..i guess you may also know about this idea...or concept.... let's have a simple overview 1st...

WHAT :: slight edge philosophy
DEFINITION :: simple little disciplines done again and again over time would move the
mightiest mountains.
Question is :: THE SLIGHT EDGE IS EASY TO DO-and it is easy not to do

read the text below where i extracted from the author or originator who give this philosophy the name it is.
" A PENNY A DAY, DOUBLED FOR A MONTH... If you were offered $1,000,000 (one million dollars) right now, or a penny a day, doubled each day, for one month, which would you choose? Unless you've read this illustration before, like most people, you'll probably choose the right-now million. But you'd be making the wrong choice. One penny, doubled every day for a month adds up to $10,737,418...and 24cents. Compound interest. Leverage. Doubling. Geometric growth. It all adds up-and that's YOUR SLIGHT EDGE."
~~ Jeff Olson

excerpt from The Slight Edge Philosophy

it is really an amazing power that we might some times overlook... and when i reflect myself back...i always like to set BIG and MARVELLOUS goals, vision....and having the most beautiful plan in the world, and also set a timeline for it...yet, i seldom really put in effort bit by bit...but in other hand, always hope that ican achieve the dream or goal when the time come..or in other word, overnight.... i always think that,
>> nevermind, still got time...not need to rush
>> Haiz...i just do not have enough amount of time today to do something good for my dream..(actually, it is everyday)
>> yes, i am just too tire..to do....and this task is really tiring to do now...
>> i will sure do something about my goal or vision when the time near..
>> + any reason u can name it..and the list just continue...

after knowing or realize or aware of this brilliant philosohpy, then i only really can feel the malay pepatah --> "sikit sikit, lama lama jadi bukit"...or "little little per day, makes mountain one day"... haha..

then that reminds me of what our great mother Teresa said :

"We can do no great things; only small things with great love."
"hundred is counted from one.."

~~Mother Teresa (1910 - 1997)

read a more interesting example or some calculation below, then you know it better:

IF YOU WERE TO IMPROVE just .003 each day- that's only 3/10 of one percent, a very Slight Edge-and you kept that up for the next five years, here's what would happen to you:

>The first year, you would improve 100 percent (you would already be twice what you are today [ Just 3/10 of one percent per day-and that's NOT compounded ].

> The second, you would improve 200 percent.

>The third year, 400 percent.

> And the fourth, 800 percent.

> And by the end of year five-by simply improving 3/10 of one percent each day-you will have magnified your value, your skills, and the results you accomplished 1,600 percent. That's 22 times more than you are today.

i don't want to elaborate any more on this philosophy le...just want to share the very little that i know about this philosophy..if you are interested, you can google more on it, and share with me later time...

lastly, i have a final word, to me, myself and also to you...yes, you, the one who reading this line right now....yes, i am refering to you.... " let us start our dream now, bit by bit, persistently, yes, now, or just after reading this post...you can do the little thing...and keep up the good work....one day...you will success.... Ooops...forgot the mention something about the
--> Question is :: THE SLIGHT EDGE IS EASY TO DO-and it is easy not to do

according to jeff olson ( i just think that name start with lower case is prettier )...which i also strongly agree....the little thing that we want to do...is simple and easy for us to do..yet, it is also easy not to do....because,
>> even if we do not do it...it will not cause any harm or loss to us...yes, you won't fail or die right away if you do not start your goal now....
>> you will still be very ok and fine if you plan to do read 10 books a year but never haven't start any until now...now May already...

Jeff Olson has more example in his post...so spend some time to read, ok....and i know what is in you mind right now " Ermm, i have no time to read...busy....tire..."...hehe, the slight edge philosophy works again....i am not asking you to read all the passage in one day....u can take your time to read....as long you read.....who say must achieve something in 1 day.....hehe

so, really last sentence..."if you think you can, you just think la..."..NO NO NO...hehe..should be "if you think you can, you just do it..."....

Happy slight edge philosphying la...my dear friend...so remember to put comment on your experience of trying it...i know u can one...! 加油! GamBate!

23/5/08 10:00pm { sleepy, eye pain }

再見. 六年的同事.六年的歲月

2008-05-28T00:04:00.000+08:00

左排: hon yoon, Ms. Jeniffer, choiweei, puiyee
右排: Simon teo, virus (ys), shihfoo, chailim, seahfang

日期：2008年的5月14日。
地点：天苑精进料理坊（cheras Miharja 花园）
时间：下午1：30

这天，可爱又亲爱的同事们为我办了一个我有生以来的第一个欢送会。哈哈，说是欢送会，不如说是惜别会。
首先，真的很感谢这班好同事，亦好朋友的心意。
大家在一起同事了六年，也变得像是一家人了，最近我提出要离开的日子里，大家更有一份说不出的感觉。嘿嘿，这当然不是在讲我有什么超人的影响力或是个人魅力，而是一种同事的一份情嘛。你能够明白吗？

啊，对了，这个惜别会不只是为我办的，也是为另外一位同事一起办的。她也会在六月间另谋高就去了。

当然，一向来喜欢写诗的我（虽然很少发表我的创作，但我会努力写，然后贴在我的部落格的），我为这一次的惜别会，铺上了一首我个人认为是诗的东西。。不用讲太多，就看看以下的诗吧：

“ 認識了你們, 在六年前.

C104, 那一間辦公室.

A217, 到如今的.

這些日子, 所走過的,

都刻印在我心中, 點點滴滴, 永遠的.

是如此的天高地厚,當年的我們, 再回首.

經過歲月的洗禮, 時間的領會, 曾幾何時.

更增添了一份穩重成熟與智慧, 如今的我們.

你們給予的, 一直以來

幫助, 分享, 照顧, 付出,

體諒, 包容, 鼓勵, 支持.

不盡，我衷心的感謝

翠麗人生自己創,

湄事不要自己煩;

彩虹你最愛紫色,

琳敏智慧你獨特;

雪賢品味亦心細,

芳慧人生最美麗;

Tremendous, Enthusiastic, Open,

Simply Outstanding, O’ways Neat,

Be Excel ‘N Gorgeous;

漢語英語歌都曉,

云開月明樂消遙;

煜立穩重事謹慎,

成功待你負重任;

Be extraOrdinary, Open thiNking,

CHange usUAl to uNusual;

天天要活得最真，

賜這首詩送你們；

你所有用心, 我都會記住, 以前;

你所有心情, 我都會記錄, 現在;

你所有短訊, 我都會回覆, 以後. ''

怎樣? 還不錯吧?

哈哈, 我的好同事, 雖然咱們見面的機會和時間也少了, 但你們永遠都在我心中,因為在這六年的歲月里, 我除了星期日和放假, 還有我回到家的時候沒看到你們, 差不多可以說其餘的時間, 都是你們配我度過的.. 雖然不是每天, 但我都在之前那句講了, ''差不多可以說其餘的時間''.....

往後, 大家再好好努力, 活出真我的風采., 當然, 我並不是說你們之前沒有活出自我的風采, 而是要你們更發揮自己的潛能, 好好展現最好的你...對了, 正在讀著這篇貼的你, 那排紅色的字也是寫給你的.ok...如果還不懂甚麼是那排紅色的字...那就是 --> 更發揮自己的潛能, 好好展現最好的你.
看到了嗎?

嗯, 我想這次就寫到這裡吧, 對了, 我會放更多的照片, 再下一個post 吧..

於2008年5月20日了. 還有50分鐘就進入午夜12時. 晚安, 各位1

// * as i have moved this blog to a new email a/c, hence below are the comments posted previously..

>> janyang said : 6年的确是一段漫长的时间，分离总是那么的痛苦，只有记住那滋味，那下次再见时才会体会与珍惜相聚的时间 XD Dated: May 22, 2008 9:52 PM

>> chiahou said: Haha, although i just get to know you not more than 1 year. but throughout ur teaching style, i think u are very good and responsible lecturer. So, i wish u have a brilliant future and have a nice day!! Of coz don't forget about us! Dated: May 23, 2008 9:03 PM

hi mr beh...this is so fake lecturer go yum cha together...lolx...hv a good time teaching in TARc...it's an ok place...good luck with future bacth of DIA students...

BY: Marcus Khoo, DIA2 Q4 - 2008 . Dated: May 23, 2008 9:20 PM

>> derred beh replied: hehe, chia hou...thanks for your comment..no worry i will remember you all de la...you all are always in my mind....as my brand name behINmind..hehe

Dated: May 23, 2008 9:20 PM

>> Anonymous said: it was wonderful and unforgetable be your colleague for 6 years time, every morning when the moment i open our office door most of the time will see u and simon .. but now ... is empty table .. need time to adjust and to me you alwyas in A217 Dated: May 25, 2008 7:38 AM

-wahwah- said: huh huh?? Mr.Beh...u r leaving TARC soon ahhh? not teaching us anymore ma? aiyorrr.. ><""

Where will u go...where art thou..?
Anyway, Mr.Teo is Simon ah...hehe
原来如此。。。and...cheras miharja is nearby my current place only ler..
Dated:May 25, 2008 9:55 AM
derred beh said: "to wah: hehe, i am actually working in IT company now...all the best!"
Dated: May 26, 2008 8:25 AM

behind the brilliant sun

2008-05-28T00:03:00.000+08:00

the SUN , our ( every living thing, although some of them can't speak the language human understand, or can not talk at all ) source of energy, thus we are here. juz thought of this slogan and hence drafted it out....

There is also a similar idea in Chinese proverb which put: "When you drink water, think of its source. <飲水思源>".

It can be described from 2 perspectives:
1. never forget kindness we received from others,we have to, some how , remember kindness or favor from other if not repay them.
2. Never forget where one's happiness comes from.

OO software developer wanted! A MNC from The Netherlands!

2008-01-04T13:10:00.000+08:00

What My Company is doing.

> develop planning and scheduling system, logistic planning, workforce/resource planning, etc.