知道 與 做到

因為你知道, 所以你做得到;
因為你不知道, 所以你做不到;

而
也因為你不知道, 所以你做得到;
又因為你知道, 所以你做不到.

最後,
知道或不知道, 並不能決定你做得到或做不到,
而是, 在你的內心深處, 是否曾經相信, 相信你做得到.

A calm ocean will never make a strong sailor

i can understand your feeling very well...i am also in a situation same as you now...

but we should never give up.....u know...you are not defeated when you fall down...but when you do not stand up and continue your journey....

life is like that...it is never easy....yes, never easy..see...i still keep in myself as positive as i could...i never say life is hard or difficult...i use a preceded positive word with a not....we still see the word "easy"....this is how our mind works, or more precisely, the way our sub conscious mind works..it just always ignore the word "NOT"....and just accept the adjective or the word after the ''NOT" or "NO"....

do not believe me....ok...like this....please do not think about the Eiffel tower in Paris....bet you...your are thinking about the Eiffel tower which i ask you do not think about it.....Don't think that i am laughing at you...hehe....once again...i believe your mind just thought of the way i laugh at you...correct....Oops...may be u never saw the way i laugh at you...hehe...

what i am try to say here is no matter what happen...we still have to keep ourselves as positive as we could....because at the end of the day...your are either happy or not happy...and you still have to live your day..am i right?...at this moment...i suddenly thought of a meaningful quotation which goes like this ~~ "to cultivate a positive thinking is better than earning a thousand pounds a year"...this quotation is as old as about 200 years already..

stress and change are necessary in our life...but i never ask you to purposely go to find or look for stress la.....they will some how come to you....we just accept them..and try to cope with them...the more we fight back with them ( stress )..the suffer we are....accept the reasonable changes.....and embrace it.....because next time when we look back our life with the most difficult stage...it is actually the time that we learn and grow the most...we become stronger and mature and steady because of those tough time....

remember, a calm ocean will never make a good sailor....it is the cruel ocean and wave that make you stronger....

wish you happy....again, you can when you believe....

rgds, :)

Good Riddance ( time of your life ) ~~ GrEeN DaY

hi, suddenly thinking about a song that i used to love it very much when i was in Form 5, haha, couple years ago...

the song is --> Good riddance ( time of your life ) by Green Day..

I still remember and always remember that this song was introduced to me by my younger brother who actually started to learn playing guitar when he was about form 2...

i like the lyrics very much, and i actually did copy the lyrics on the back of my school uniform, and treat it as graduation memory and let all my classmates have their signature on it...however, after moving out to KL, don't know where my mum and I put the uniform already, else it will be some kind of memory and valuable already...-_-'''', sad lor...

yes, my hometown is Sekinchan. Sekinchan can be considered as a small pekan ( town or village, i don't know ) in North Selangor, go further north about 20 mins from Kuala Selangor. The name Sekinchan is taken from chinese name --> 適耕莊 as 適合耕種的村莊...it has a lot of paddy fields on your right hand side ( when you visit it ), and seaside of your left...so there are also a lot of seafood...many visitors from all over malaysia like to have seafood in my hometown, only if they know la....

alamak, actually my main aim for this post is to share with you all the lyrics and this song --> good riddance ( time of your life )...see below..

yes, another important thing...still remember i mentioned about my younger brother, he used to have nick called abe....haha, a bit like the former Japanese PM's name ler...tell you what, my brother is going to have his 1st album release in this coming August 08, hehe, of course not like those official singer who really from what SONY, BMG or whatever lar....aiya, i can not remember the way he sells the CD...will let you know afterward...but only if u want to know lar.....Mm...to me, his song is good and special..full of sentimental + feel as well....

you can have some of my brother's demo at
1. neuyabe myspace music
2 neuyabe's blog

and, as i promised, below is the lyrics + video of Good Riddance ( time of your life's lyrics)


Another turning point
A fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist
Directs you where to go
So make the best of this test
And don't ask why
It's not a question
But a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

So take the photographs
And still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf of good health
And good time
Tattoos of memories
And dead skin on trial
For what it's worth
It was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

讓自己成長的守則 ( 五 之 二 )

這是接上個帖的讓 讓自己成長的守則 之 二

11.將心比心
12.自己要不斷地嘗試
13.不要輕易地放棄
14.讓自己知道存在的價值
15.不要輕易地瞧不起自己
16.對自己的作為要收歛一點
17.勿生氣..因為生氣是拿別人做錯的事來懲罰自己
18.無論在何地何時..自己要有所安慰
19.每天告訴自己一次..我真的很不錯
20.每日對自己要有所期望

加油加油! you can, when you believe..