A calm ocean will never make a strong sailor

i can understand your feeling very well...i am also in a situation same as you now...

but we should never give up.....u know...you are not defeated when you fall down...but when you do not stand up and continue your journey....

life is like that...it is never easy....yes, never easy..see...i still keep in myself as positive as i could...i never say life is hard or difficult...i use a preceded positive word with a not....we still see the word "easy"....this is how our mind works, or more precisely, the way our sub conscious mind works..it just always ignore the word "NOT"....and just accept the adjective or the word after the ''NOT" or "NO"....

do not believe me....ok...like this....please do not think about the Eiffel tower in Paris....bet you...your are thinking about the Eiffel tower which i ask you do not think about it.....Don't think that i am laughing at you...hehe....once again...i believe your mind just thought of the way i laugh at you...correct....Oops...may be u never saw the way i laugh at you...hehe...

what i am try to say here is no matter what happen...we still have to keep ourselves as positive as we could....because at the end of the day...your are either happy or not happy...and you still have to live your day..am i right?...at this moment...i suddenly thought of a meaningful quotation which goes like this ~~ "to cultivate a positive thinking is better than earning a thousand pounds a year"...this quotation is as old as about 200 years already..

stress and change are necessary in our life...but i never ask you to purposely go to find or look for stress la.....they will some how come to you....we just accept them..and try to cope with them...the more we fight back with them ( stress )..the suffer we are....accept the reasonable changes.....and embrace it.....because next time when we look back our life with the most difficult stage...it is actually the time that we learn and grow the most...we become stronger and mature and steady because of those tough time....

remember, a calm ocean will never make a good sailor....it is the cruel ocean and wave that make you stronger....

wish you happy....again, you can when you believe....

rgds, :)